i came home from work one day and i could tell immediately that something wasn’t right. she was scrambling to shut something down on the laptop. after that she left to go to the store. i noticed that she left her f/b page open so i got nosey and it payed off. in her inbox were messages between her and another guy that dated back to october of last year, lets just say i couldn’t believe what i read. she had been making plans to go to another state to supposedly visit her son but everything is clear to me now that she was going to pay this guy a visit as well. they also shared a page she created on f/b called grown and sexy. this is a pornographic page that promotes deceit and infidelity it has 96 members and i wish there was a way to report this page and get it removed, this page has basically ruined my life! come on people help me get rid of this page, lets all go on f/b and report this page, we can do it!
Welcome To Miami
I’ve had a boyfriend for the last two years, promising me the moon and stars. My boyfriend is an IT Consultant and he travels a lot to Central and South America. A week ago, speaking with an old friend who lives in Miami and who Id hadnt seen in long time (she knew my boyfriend but didn’t know I was going out with him). We were chatting and suddenly she told me that “My boyfriend” had a girlfriend in Miami. I instantly turned cold but acted normal I asked her some more questions as if nothing happened. She told me she was a Facebook friend of his girlfriend and knew they were going out together because she had seen some pictures she posted on her wall.
My friend got her Ipad and showed me the pictures this other woman had posted on her wall. And there he was, with this woman having a blast. They spent New Year’s Eve together, her birthday, valentines; he even bought her a ring as a Valentines gift. I just tried to think in my mind where he was every time he called me, that he said he was in Mexico, in Colombia, in Argentina. He was with that woman. When I showed him the pictures, he said it was just a friend and that he didnt have anything to do with her.
FB Lover
I am a married woman who had a facebook affair with an old boyfriend for almost a year. He contacted me and knew exactly what to say to hook me in. I am not making excuses for my actions, however I have been married to a verbally abusive alcoholic for 12 years and was unfortunately open to an affair. My fb lover lived in a different state, so at first I thought the flirting was harmless. We started texting and it got serious with him telling me he loved me and wanted to marry me. How stupid was I ??? I hadn’t seen this person in over 20 years. He made me feel the best that I had felt in years and I felt that I was in love with him. He was single and I entertained thoughts of leaving my life to be with him. I traveled to where he lived to see him about 6 mos. after we started talking. He basically blew me off, so at that point I was done with it. I felt like it was a sign that I should stay faithful to my husband. The one mistake I made was not deleting him from my facebook. Approximately 2 mos. later he contacted me. My wounds were still fresh and I fell hard again. This time there was more talk of love, marriage etc… but he would go on and off fb and I wouldn’t hear from him for days at a time. It started to feel shady to me, but I kept it going. Then I went out to see him again 6 mos. ago and rented a hotel room for us. Of course he had no money to pay for it!!! Still I would have done anything to be with him at that point.
Shortly after I got home, my husband starting reading my facebook emails. Surprisingly it was an email to another old friend that made him question me. He questioned me and my inconsistencies finally made him ask me about an affair at which point I admitted it to him. Since this time we have tried counseling, he has physically abused me and made me delete my facebook profile which kills me. I want nothing more than to be on facebook with my old friends, family etc. I stopped things w/ my f b lover and my husband actually called him. I still think about him, but of course havent heard from him. I am so torn. Has anyone else been through this? My fb lover was starting to pull away before I was caught, but I was still trying to keep the affair alive. I have had no contact since I was caught. My husband checks all my emails, texts and cell phone records. I feel like I am trapped in a box. I know, it is my own doing.
